Relationships

Love and Let Live

Not everyone is going to be able to love you the way you need to be loved.  That doesn’t mean anything bad about you.  You’re not unlovable, or unworthy.  It doesn’t mean anything bad about them either.  They’re not evil, or a bad person (unless they’re abusive, in which ... read more

Heavy Lifting

Love can lift very heavy loads.  I got to spend some time with my parents this weekend, and we are so blessed to have the relationship we have.  It didn’t come easily–it used to be World War III at my house when I was a teenager.  It took a lot of time and effort to heal the wounds, but I ... read more

Growing Pains

Sometimes people will say things that upset you. It’s OK to cry and feel your feelings…in fact, I recommend it.  If you want to turn that upset into something that empowers you, here are some tools for you: 1) What they said means nothing about you. It’s a reflection of how that person ... read more

Dance Alone

Sometimes in life you have to go it alone.  It’s in those moments that you connect to who you are on a deeper level.  Don’t resist it!  Be your own partner.  Get to know yourself.  Learn to love your own company.  It will make you a better person, and a better partner in the future. read more